Curious about self-compassion?

Hear from expert clinical psychologists, doctors and therapists around the world and discover the research behind self-compassion, and why the time for self-compassion and Give Yourself Kindness is now.

approaching difficult emotions with a strong back and soft front

Approaching difficult emotions with a strong back and soft front

Chronic stress can leave us feeling overwhelmed, but resilience doesn’t mean shutting down our emotions. Kristin Neff, PhD, and Chris Germer, PhD, explain how cultivating a strong back—courage and stability—alongside a soft front—compassion and care—helps us face difficulties without being consumed by them. 

self-compassion is not self-pity

Self-compassion is not self-pity

Self-compassion is often misunderstood as self-pity, but the two couldn’t be more different. While self-pity isolates us in thoughts like "Why me?", self-compassion reminds us that everyone struggles. Kristin Neff, PhD, and Chris Germer, PhD, explain how self-compassion helps us break free from rumination, ease emotional burdens, and feel more connected to others.

is self-compassion natural by dr chris germer

Is self-compassion natural?

Chris Germer, PhD, clinical psychologist, Harvard lecturer, and co-developer of Mindful Self-Compassion, explores why self-compassion is the most natural thing in the world. Discover how embracing this instinct can help you respond to suffering with kindness rather than self-criticism.

befriending your mind with patience

Befriending your mind with patience

Professor Willem Kuyken, a leading expert in mindfulness and well-being, explores how patience can transform your mind into a lifelong friend. Discover how cultivating patience helps you navigate life’s challenges with greater ease, trust, and wisdom.

Is self-compassion linked to seeing oneself as a victim?

Is self-compassion linked to seeing oneself as a victim?

Dr. Rick Hanson, psychologist, Senior Fellow at UC Berkeley’s Greater Good Science Center, and best-selling author, explores two meanings of 'victim'—one reflecting real mistreatment, the other implying helplessness. Discover how self-compassion honors the first without fueling the second.

12 ways to forgive yourself – no matter what you’ve done!

12 ways to forgive yourself – no matter what you’ve done!

Holding onto past mistakes can trap us in cycles of shame and regret, but true self-forgiveness isn't about dismissing our actions. Dr. Frederic Luskin, Stanford's leading forgiveness researcher, shares twelve practical steps that help us acknowledge our missteps while creating space for healing and growth—showing us how to make peace with our past without minimizing its impact.

self-compassion or self-indulgence

Self-compassion or self-indulgence?

Some fear that self-compassion leads to self-indulgence, but true self-compassion always has its eyes on the prize: alleviating suffering. Kristin Neff, PhD, a pioneering self-compassion expert, explains how mindfulness, kindness, and common humanity help us meet our real needs—not just our wants—while keeping our choices balanced and sustainable.

why self-compassion is more effective than self-criticism

Why self-compassion is more effective than self-criticism

Annabelle Kyle Dortch, Psy.D., clinical psychologist, shares why self-criticism keeps you stuck—and why self-compassion is the key to real change. Discover how to break the cycle and grow in a way that truly lasts.

The fears of self-compassion and how to work with them

The fears of self-compassion and how to work with them

Learn how to overcome common fears and embrace self-compassion with expert advice from Dr. Chris Irons, a clinical psychologist and one of the world's leading researchers and trainers of Compassion Focused Therapy.  Uncover the top ten fears of self-compassion and find effective ways to address them.

The art of mindful self-care: why small moments matter

The art of mindful self-care: why small moments matter

Discover how mindful self-care can flourish in life's smallest moments with insights from Dr. Michelle Chung, an experienced clinical psychologist. Learn why true self-care doesn't require a two-hour yoga class and how tiny rituals—from mindful breathing to gratitude practices—can build lasting resilience.

What mindfulness is not

What mindfulness is not

Chris Germer, PhD, clinical psychologist, Harvard lecturer, and co-developer of Mindful Self-Compassion, challenges common misconceptions about mindfulness. Explore what mindfulness isn’t—it’s not about relaxation, emptying the mind, or escaping pain—and discover how it can help you develop a deeper, more accepting relationship with your thoughts and emotions.

The benefits of journaling: from 3 Clinical Psychologists

The benefits of journaling: from 3 Clinical Psychologists

Discover the impact journaling can have on your mental health with expert insights from 3 leading clinical psychologists. Learn why journaling works, explore its benefits, and find practical advice to make it a lasting habit for emotional well-being.
psychotherapist Nina Holle
embrace your emotions by therapist nina holle

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